It’s kind of late in the day. It’s about to end.
But in the waning hours of Father’s Day, I’ve suddenly gotten filled with the desire to share a brief story about my dad and a simple question he posed to me.
It was late in 1970. I had returned home from a two-year U.S. Army stint. I was preparing to re-enroll in college.
Mom, Dad and I were having dinner one evening at their home, where I returned after my Army hitch.
We were chatting about college, my plans and what I might want to do with my life now that my military obligation was over. I was single, unattached (for the time being) and I had my whole life ahead of me.
Dad asked, “Have you declared a major yet? Do you know what you want to study in college?”
I had not yet made that decision. “Why do you ask?” I said.
Dad responded immediately, “Have you thought about journalism?”
To be honest, I hadn’t given it any thought. “Journalism?” I asked.
Sure, he said. He told me of the letters I wrote home from wherever I was stationed for the previous two years. I wrote home frequently from basic training in Fort Lewis, Wash.; from Fort Eustis, Va., where I went through my advanced training; then from Da Nang, South Vietnam and later, from Fort Lewis, where I was assigned at the end of my tour.
He mentioned how “descriptive” they were. He said I had this ability to turn a phrase. He thought journalism might be a good fit for me, given — he said — my ability to string sentences together.
Oh, gee, why not? So, I returned to college in January 1971, enrolling in some journalism-related classes.
I then fell in love with this craft called “journalism.”
I stayed with it for the next four decades.
I look back at that dinner-time moment with Dad and Mom with great fondness and appreciation for the simple question that Dad asked. It helped me — along with prodding and pushing from the girl who would become my wife in September 1971 — undertake a fruitful and moderately successful career in print journalism.
It’s not yet over, thankfully.
I’m pretty sure I thanked Dad for nudging me down that path. He’s been gone now for 35 years; Mom died 31 years ago. I can’t thank them again now.
However, I can share this memory to remind myself — and perhaps others — of our parents’ wisdom.
In that moment at the dinner table, father definitely knew best.