This is the latest in an occasional series of blog posts commenting on impending retirement.
If I had known grandkids would be this much fun, I would have had them first.
You’ve seen that popular bumper sticker, I’m sure. Well, I mean no disrespect to the two sons we brought into the world many decades ago, but our little Emma Nicole is the living embodiment of that bumper-sticker cliché.
We’ve had a glorious evening entertaining this little pumpkin. She turns 16 months tomorrow. She’s walking, jabbering, teasing, laughing, mugging and is making us laugh hysterically at every little thing she says and does.
I am noting this only as a prelude to the retirement life my wife and I are anticipating in the not-too-distant future. It’s going to include some serious exposure to this little darling.
Emma lives in Allen — just north of Dallas — with her parents and two big brothers. We don’t get to see here much, at least not yet. It’s a six-hour drive each way, after all.
Emma surprised us with a visit this weekend. Well, actually it wasn’t a surprise to my wife and me. It was to her uncle, our older son, who didn’t know his brother, sister-in-law and niece were arriving for the Fourth of July weekend until they parked in front of our house. Our son was visiting us with his girlfriend and her daughters when Emma’s parents arrived.
We’ll be traveling soon to Allen with our fifth wheel to see our granddaughter once more. And this, too, is another element of retirement to which my wife and I are looking forward. It’ll be another one of those three-night excursions. We’ll drive to a state part, park our vehicle, hook it up and visit the family. It’ll include more quality time with Emma, for sure.
As we’ve played with Emma this evening, the thought occurred to me: At 16 months of age, does she realize yet that we are her grandparents? Or are we just two adults with whom she enjoys playing? She cannot communicate in a fool-proof way just yet what she’s thinking or feeling.
Still, I prefer to give her — and I suppose us and our daughter-in-law’s parents — the benefit of the doubt that she recognizes her grandparents when she sees them.
We’ll move closer to our cherished little Emma eventually.
For now I’ll settle for the joyous preview we’re getting to a whole new life awaiting us.