{"id":7232,"date":"2014-11-25T19:54:53","date_gmt":"2014-11-25T19:54:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=7232"},"modified":"2014-11-25T19:54:53","modified_gmt":"2014-11-25T19:54:53","slug":"facebook-is-a-blast-but-i-prefer-some-decorum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=7232","title":{"rendered":"Facebook is a blast, but I prefer some decorum"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>I just posted this item on my Facebook timeline.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Alert: I just &#8216;unfriended&#8217; someone from my Facebook &#8216;friends&#8217; list because of his liberal use of profanity. I am prone to speak with pithy tongue on occasion myself, but I do not like using it &#8212; or seeing it &#8212; on my timeline. Be forewarned. I&#8217;ll be on the lookout for gratuitous and patently nasty verbiage. A little here and there is OK, but watch it, folks.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now I shall explain in a bit of detail.<\/p>\n<p>The &#8220;friend&#8221; I whacked from my list really isn&#8217;t a friend. I don&#8217;t know the individual. He sent a Facebook &#8220;friend request&#8221; a few months ago and I accepted. It turns out we&#8217;re of like minds politically, so I guess he\u00a0read my blog posts that feed automatically to my Facebook news feed.<\/p>\n<p>But this individual has a tart tongue &#8212; so to speak &#8212; when he lays his hands on a keyboard. He would lace his commentary with f-bombs, s-bombs and sexually explicit language.<\/p>\n<p>I cut him off.<\/p>\n<p>I enjoy using Facebook as a social medium for a couple of reasons. I use it as a platform to\u00a0share my blog posts, along with several other social media sites. I also keep up with those with whom I have signed on as friends. Some of them are the real deal, actual friends I&#8217;ve known for years; the guy I&#8217;ve known the longest goes back to the seventh grade &#8212; that would be 1962. Others are acquaintances or folks I&#8217;ve known professionally over more than three decades in print journalism. And still others are individuals I do not know, but who have &#8220;mutual friends&#8221; on Facebook; when they request a spot on my &#8220;friends&#8221; roster, I&#8217;m likely to sign them up. And, of course, some family members belong to my list of friends.<\/p>\n<p>A handful of my Facebook friends are young people, as in minors. They don&#8217;t need to read filth on my Facebook timeline. I have others on my friends roster who &#8212; I believe &#8212; might take offense at the foul language. So I try to honor their values as well.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t misunderstand. I am not a saint. I pepper my own spoken words with\u00a0some pithiness on occasion. I do so in the presence of people I know and who might be prone to the same verbal proclivity.<\/p>\n<p>I just prefer at least a touch of decorum on these Facebook posts, if for no other reason than to offer some relief from the coarseness that has become the norm.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just posted this item on my Facebook timeline. &#8220;Alert: I just &#8216;unfriended&#8217; someone from my Facebook &#8216;friends&#8217; list because of his liberal use of profanity. I am prone to speak with pithy tongue on occasion myself, but I do not like using it &#8212; or seeing it &#8212; on my timeline. Be forewarned. I&#8217;ll &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=7232\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Facebook is a blast, but I prefer some decorum<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1676,4300],"class_list":["post-7232","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-facebook","tag-social-media"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7232","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7232"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7232\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7232"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7232"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7232"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}