{"id":58906,"date":"2025-09-25T00:00:10","date_gmt":"2025-09-25T00:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=58906"},"modified":"2025-09-25T00:00:10","modified_gmt":"2025-09-25T00:00:10","slug":"sorry-for-not-engaging","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=58906","title":{"rendered":"Sorry for not engaging"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n\r\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Here it comes &#8230; a qualified apology to the occasional critic of this blog who challenges me to engage them in debate, only to be rebuffed by me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>High Plains Blogger used to consume a lot more of my time than it does these days. As I grow older &#8212; and as I continue to rebuild my life after my bride&#8217;s passing from brain cancer more than two years ago &#8212; the blog has become less a part of my life. That&#8217;s by design. It&#8217;s my design.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I have my share of supporters who tell me they like what I have to say on issues of the day. I also have a number of folks who I know oppose my point of view. On occasion they will challenge me. They demand that I explain myself. If they present data they believe proves me wrong, they insist I say so publicly, or at the very least engage them in debate.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I once posted an item on this blog that declared that I see my posted opinion as my last word on a subject. Therefore, I have no particular need or desire to engage someone in a debate that will result only in boosting my blood pressure. Maybe even theirs, too.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Now that I am well into this next phase of my life, I have even less reason to go toe-to-toe with a political foe. There is no point. I choose only to let my critics have the last word, as I am not afflicted by what I call <em>&#8220;last word-itis.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I have asked on occasion if my foe and I could just &#8220;agree to disagree.&#8221; Some of them say yes. Some of them want to keep the rhetorical brass knucks handy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Look, the loss of my dear Kathy Anne taught me a valuable life lesson. It is that life is too damn short to waste time on matters that won&#8217;t ever change. I never expect to change anyone&#8217;s mind with the posts I deliver on High Plains Blogger. They might think they can change mine.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They would be horribly mistaken. To those who wish I would engage them, I merely want to apologize &#8230; but only for staying away from the rough-and-tumble. I won&#8217;t apologize for whatever I say.<\/p>\r\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here it comes &#8230; a qualified apology to the occasional critic of this blog who challenges me to engage them in debate, only to be rebuffed by me. High Plains Blogger used to consume a lot more of my time than it does these days. As I grow older &#8212; and as I continue to &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=58906\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Sorry for not engaging<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,10,13],"tags":[2122,7419],"class_list":["post-58906","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-local-news","category-media-news","category-national-news","tag-high-plains-blogger","tag-maga"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58906","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=58906"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58906\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":58909,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58906\/revisions\/58909"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=58906"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=58906"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=58906"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}