{"id":58255,"date":"2025-03-24T00:04:15","date_gmt":"2025-03-24T00:04:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=58255"},"modified":"2025-03-24T00:04:15","modified_gmt":"2025-03-24T00:04:15","slug":"another-tale-of-loss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=58255","title":{"rendered":"Another tale of loss"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>My reluctance to share this latest twist in my life&#8217;s journey has buckled under the pressure to reveal a bit about my family to all of you.<\/p>\n<p>I lost my sister to illness not long ago. She was 14 months younger than me. She had suffered terribly for a long time with a list of ailments too long for me to count here. It was a bout with COPD that claimed my sis. Her heart stopped and the medics couldn&#8217;t bring her back.<\/p>\n<p>Georgianne died in the house she shared with her husband.<\/p>\n<p>Sis led a complicated life. However, we remained close despite some differences over many issues dating back to our teen years. It&#8217;s difficult to explain, except that I knew her my entire life. She was part of my life the moment I became aware of my surroundings as a toddler.<\/p>\n<p>I have been feeling down in the dumps over the past several days. I guess it&#8217;s a feeling of mortality that has gripped me.<\/p>\n<p>My parents weren&#8217;t allowed to grow old. Dad was 59 when he perished in a boating accident in 1980. Mom was 61 when she succumbed to Alzheimer&#8217;s disease four years later. My bride was 71 when she passed from glioblastoma &#8212; cancer of the brain. All but one of my parents&#8217; eight siblings have passed away.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re going to gather later this week to celebrate Georgianne&#8217;s life in a service at a church she and her husband attended in a rural Washington state community. The next day we will gather at a cemetery in Portland to have her remains blessed by an Orthodox priest from the church where my sisters and I were baptized.<\/p>\n<p>I have no particular need to tell you all of this, other than to put it in the open. I have one sister left and I venture to believe we will be drawn even closer than we are already &#8230; and that&#8217;s really saying something.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe I should declare a bit of regret that I wasn&#8217;t always kind to my departed sister. She had this way of getting under my skin with the occasional statement or opinion that exhibited a stunning lack of awareness that others were hurting.<\/p>\n<p>But &#8230; she was my sister. I loved her unconditionally. I will miss her for the rest of my life.<\/p>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My reluctance to share this latest twist in my life&#8217;s journey has buckled under the pressure to reveal a bit about my family to all of you. I lost my sister to illness not long ago. She was 14 months younger than me. 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