{"id":56104,"date":"2023-11-01T00:03:04","date_gmt":"2023-11-01T00:03:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=56104"},"modified":"2023-11-01T00:03:04","modified_gmt":"2023-11-01T00:03:04","slug":"kathy-anne-66","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=56104","title":{"rendered":"Trek finds new traction"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>My bride once asked me &#8212; while we attended the 10-year reunion of my Portland, Ore., high school class &#8212; why I wasn&#8217;t reuniting with the female classmates gathered at a city park where we all met.<\/p>\n<p>My answer to Kathy Anne: I was &#8220;painfully shy&#8221; as a teenager. I was uncomfortable talking to girls, I told her. Less than four years after graduating from high school, the sensational young woman whom I would marry broke me of my shyness &#8230; if you know what I mean.<\/p>\n<p>I recently declared my intention to return to the world &#8220;social interaction&#8221; since losing my dear bride to cancer this past February. I am a lot more socially skilled than I was a teenager. I like talking to &#8220;girls&#8221; these days and if you&#8217;ll pardon my candor, I am pretty good at it.<\/p>\n<p>I still get a bit jittery at the prospect of asking someone on a date. I still don&#8217;t always say the correct thing at precisely the correct moment.<\/p>\n<p>I also realize something else. I am nearly 74 years of age. Thus, time is not my ally. I figure that if I am going to find someone with whom I want to spend copious amounts of time in my final years on Earth, I had better get busy.<\/p>\n<p>Thus, my journey through the post-mortem grief of losing the love of my life is getting brighter seemingly each day. It isn&#8217;t quite so dark these days along the path I have been walking since I bid farewell to my beloved Kathy Anne.<\/p>\n<p>My destination still is to be determined. As I shake off the shyness that inhibited me as a youth, I know I&#8217;ll find that place sooner rather than later.<\/p>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My bride once asked me &#8212; while we attended the 10-year reunion of my Portland, Ore., high school class &#8212; why I wasn&#8217;t reuniting with the female classmates gathered at a city park where we all met. My answer to Kathy Anne: I was &#8220;painfully shy&#8221; as a teenager. I was uncomfortable talking to girls, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=56104\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Trek finds new traction<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[833,10124,10129],"class_list":["post-56104","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-local-news","tag-cancer","tag-kathy-anne","tag-mourning"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56104","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=56104"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56104\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":56106,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56104\/revisions\/56106"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=56104"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=56104"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=56104"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}