{"id":55791,"date":"2023-09-07T13:41:42","date_gmt":"2023-09-07T13:41:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=55791"},"modified":"2023-09-07T13:47:05","modified_gmt":"2023-09-07T13:47:05","slug":"social-media-threats","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=55791","title":{"rendered":"Social media: warning, warning!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/social-media.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-35631\" src=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/social-media-300x270.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/social-media-300x270.jpg 300w, https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/social-media.jpg 474w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I feel the need to use this blog to vent about social media and the threats they pose to individuals of a certain age and demographic &#8230; such as yours truly.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the deal. I am a 73-year-old male who admits to being a bit too involved with at least one social media platform; <em>that would be Facebook.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Lately, say, within the past four or five months, I have been getting these &#8220;friend&#8221; requests from individuals who send them to me accompanied by a picture of an attractive &#8212; in some cases drop-dead gorgeous &#8212; females.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know these individuals, obviously. It&#8217;s tempting to engage them and I am willing to acknowledge that temptation. I prefer not to do so, believing that there&#8217;s a chance that the individual seeking my &#8220;friendship&#8221; might be looking for something other than an individual with whom she can converse.<\/p>\n<p>As those of you who have been following this blog know, I have been writing about the journey I have undertaken since the passing of my dear bride, Kathy Anne. My journey remains a trek without a clear destination, which I suppose brings me to the point of this blog.<\/p>\n<p>It is that social media in all their forms can become predatory weapons for those willing to use them in that fashion. I am not a Snap Chat or Tik Tok participant, nor do I use Instagram all that much; Twitter is fading away and LinkedIn is for professionals and I am a semi-retired <em>former<\/em> full-time journalist.<\/p>\n<p>I also am alert enough &#8212; and perhaps even <em>cynical<\/em> enough &#8212; to presume that the individuals seeking to become &#8220;friends&#8221; have no relationship with the pictures they send me via Facebook. Put another way, I am immediately suspicious of a picture of a gorgeous female, thinking that the sender of the &#8220;friend&#8221; request might be some toothless, hairy-backed knuckle-dragger looking to play a dirty trick on this old fella.<\/p>\n<p>I know I&#8217;ll get to where I am intended to go eventually. This journey is taking its natural coarse and I trust the forces that are guiding it &#8212; and me. I am just trying like the dickens to keep social media temptations at bay.<\/p>\n<p>So far, so good.<\/p>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I feel the need to use this blog to vent about social media and the threats they pose to individuals of a certain age and demographic &#8230; such as yours truly. Here&#8217;s the deal. I am a 73-year-old male who admits to being a bit too involved with at least one social media platform; that &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=55791\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Social media: warning, warning!<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[1676,10124,4300],"class_list":["post-55791","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-media-news","tag-facebook","tag-kathy-anne","tag-social-media"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55791","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=55791"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55791\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":55793,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55791\/revisions\/55793"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=55791"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=55791"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=55791"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}