{"id":55042,"date":"2023-05-28T21:30:51","date_gmt":"2023-05-28T21:30:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=55042"},"modified":"2023-05-28T21:30:51","modified_gmt":"2023-05-28T21:30:51","slug":"kathy-anne-40","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=55042","title":{"rendered":"Trouble with that ‘d’ word"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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I never in a million years envisioned having trouble with a certain word after losing someone so dear to me.<\/p>\n

But I am … having trouble saying a certain word out loud when I discuss the loss of Kathy Anne to cancer. I won’t even write it. Not here on the blog. Nowhere, man!<\/p>\n

You know the word. The word and its variations all start with the letter “d.”<\/p>\n

Maybe this isn’t new to anyone who has undergone this level of loss, followed by grief and mourning. You know about which I am writing this brief post.<\/p>\n

When I was writing for newspapers for all those decades, I was told by my editors to use the “d” word when describing someone who has left this Earth. No “passing away” allowed when writing hard copy for news stories or even for opinion pieces. Can’t have euphemisms, editors would tell me. Got it!<\/p>\n

That’s all changed for me now. I am in control of this blog and I am the boss of what appears on it. Therefore, as I comment on Kathy Anne’s life with me and my family, I will refrain — for the foreseeable future and maybe even beyond — from using that word. We spent 52 years together. Her illness was brief, but so very savage.<\/p>\n

I am acutely aware of the finality of what has transpired. I just am not ready to say or write the word or words that tell me what I already know.<\/p>\n

I believe you will understand. Maybe even cut me a bit of slack.<\/p>\n

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