{"id":54574,"date":"2023-04-07T04:41:47","date_gmt":"2023-04-07T04:41:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=54574"},"modified":"2023-04-07T04:41:47","modified_gmt":"2023-04-07T04:41:47","slug":"kathy-anne-25","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=54574","title":{"rendered":"How am I doing? Umm &#8230; OK"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p><strong>PORTLAND &#8212;<\/strong> The question is inevitable as I make my way across the western United States and begin thinking about the return trip to my home in North Texas.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;How are you doing?&#8221;<\/em> my friends and family members ask with the look of those who know the pain I am feeling.<\/p>\n<p>My answer is truthful. &#8220;Oh &#8230; I&#8217;m OK.&#8221; They know I&#8217;m not really OK, but they understand the reason the shrug I give them and the look in my eyes.<\/p>\n<p>But in truth, I actually am doing a bit better than just OK. It&#8217;s not a lot better, but it&#8217;s a little bit so.<\/p>\n<p>I embarked on this venture to clear my head after my wife passed away suddenly in early February after getting a cancer diagnosis that knocked me for a loop &#8230; but which seemed in the moment to have been something Kathy Anne might have expected.<\/p>\n<p>She was stoic and steadfast in her response to the doctor:<em> &#8220;Let&#8217;s just get it out of there.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I had to leave the house. So, I did. I am very close to the halfway point. Soon I&#8217;ll be turning my pickup around and heading toward the house.<\/p>\n<p>My sense is that I&#8217;ll be able to walk into my Princeton home feeling a bit of emotional relief as a result of the time I have taken away.<\/p>\n<p>To be sure, there are likely to be more of these ventures in my near and medium-term future. This one, though, has been fairly successful in that I have been able to accomplish much of what I intended when Toby the Puppy and I hit the road nearly two weeks ago.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll get more of the &#8220;How are you doing?&#8221; questions along the way. Those who ask it will get the same answer I&#8217;ve been giving. I trust they&#8217;ll understand.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:johnkanelis_92@hotmail.com\">johnkanelis_92@hotmail.com<\/a><\/p>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>PORTLAND &#8212; The question is inevitable as I make my way across the western United States and begin thinking about the return trip to my home in North Texas. &#8220;How are you doing?&#8221; my friends and family members ask with the look of those who know the pain I am feeling. 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