{"id":53041,"date":"2022-09-24T00:01:01","date_gmt":"2022-09-24T00:01:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=53041"},"modified":"2022-09-24T00:01:01","modified_gmt":"2022-09-24T00:01:01","slug":"recalling-an-astonishing-first-meeting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=53041","title":{"rendered":"Recalling an astonishing first meeting"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<figure id=\"attachment_28443\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-28443\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/bivins.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-28443\" src=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/bivins-300x196.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"196\" srcset=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/bivins-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/bivins.jpg 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-28443\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(By Michael Schumacher)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Readers of High Plains Blogger might recall a statement made on it that I am writing a memoir for members of my family.<\/p>\n<p>The memoir is about two-thirds finished. It contains personal reminiscences of people I met during my career as a print journalist and recalls the more fascinating sights I saw and experiences that came my way.<\/p>\n<p>I want to reveal one of the people I cite in this memoir. I won&#8217;t spill all the beans, but I do want to share one element of this individual&#8217;s character that I found most appealing.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">***<\/p>\n<p>The late Teel Bivins served as a Republican state senator from the Texas Panhandle from 1989 until 2004. I arrived at the Amarillo Globe-News in January 1995 to stand post as editorial page editor of the daily newspapers we published in Amarillo.<\/p>\n<p>I knew a little bit about Bivins when I arrived, given that I had spent nearly 11 years at the Beaumont Enterprise. I had been watching the Legislature during my decade on the Gulf Coast.<\/p>\n<p>My phone rang a few days after I arrived in Amarillo. It was Bivins&#8217; office in downtown Amarillo. He wanted to meet with me. Good deal, I said. I&#8217;ll be right over.<\/p>\n<p>I walked into Bivins&#8217; office. Then he welcomed me to his desk. We shook hands, I sat down, exchanged a bit of small talk about this and that politician we both knew. He asked me about my family. I told him of my marital bliss and the pride we share in our sons who at the time were just completing their college studies.<\/p>\n<p>Then it came.<\/p>\n<p>Bivins at that point proceeded to tell me a tale of woe and a bit of horror at the condition of his wife. She suffered from alcohol and drug abuse, he said. He didn&#8217;t know what to do. He didn&#8217;t know whether he could stay married to her. Bivins said he was at the end of his tolerance with her. &#8220;I don&#8217;t think I can keep this up,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>I mention this because in that moment, a politician I had known for, oh, <em>about 30 minutes<\/em> took the time to expose a part of his life that obviously caused him great pain.<\/p>\n<p>I shall admit that in that moment, I didn&#8217;t realize what became clear to me a few days later. A legislative aide to Bivins informed that the reason Bivins wanted to tell that story about his wife was that he wanted to get ahead of a story I likely would hear &#8230; from someone else.<\/p>\n<p>Do you get it? The man wanted to tell me his version of events before I heard someone else&#8217;s version.<\/p>\n<p>It truly was an astonishing thing to reveal to a total stranger, let alone to someone &#8212; such as me &#8212; who was in a position to offer commentary on politicians&#8217; personal lives.<\/p>\n<p>I have retained a vivid memory of that first meeting with a prominent Texas politician. I do so on purpose, as it reminds me that politicians &#8212; of all people &#8212; indeed, can achieve a form of nobility.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a href=\"mailto:johnkanelis_92@hotmail.com\">johnkanelis_92@hotmail.com<\/a><\/p>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Readers of High Plains Blogger might recall a statement made on it that I am writing a memoir for members of my family. The memoir is about two-thirds finished. It contains personal reminiscences of people I met during my career as a print journalist and recalls the more fascinating sights I saw and experiences that &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=53041\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Recalling an astonishing first meeting<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,10,14],"tags":[179,568,4544,4653],"class_list":["post-53041","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-local-news","category-media-news","category-political-news","tag-agn-media","tag-beaumont-enterprise","tag-teel-bivins","tag-texas-legislature"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53041","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=53041"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53041\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":53043,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53041\/revisions\/53043"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=53041"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=53041"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=53041"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}