{"id":52759,"date":"2022-08-30T14:53:58","date_gmt":"2022-08-30T14:53:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=52759"},"modified":"2022-08-30T14:53:58","modified_gmt":"2022-08-30T14:53:58","slug":"a-surprising-bit-of-candor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=52759","title":{"rendered":"A surprising bit of candor"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/69-portland-oregon-adventure-towns_25185_600x450.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-12821\" src=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/69-portland-oregon-adventure-towns_25185_600x450-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/69-portland-oregon-adventure-towns_25185_600x450-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/69-portland-oregon-adventure-towns_25185_600x450.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It just flew out of my mouth the moment I heard the question: Do I miss Portland? My answer, which came without the slightest hesitation: <em>No. I do not.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I was wearing an Oregon Ducks ballcap when we walked into a Barnes &amp; Noble bookstore in Frisco, Texas, the other day. The lady at the counter saw the hat, recognized me as a Ducks fan and made some comment about the hat I was wearing. I asked her where she is from; she told me Lynwood, a suburb of Seattle.<\/p>\n<p>We chatted for a moment and I told her I grew up in Portland. I thought for a moment about mentioning how the Ducks have owned the University of Washington Huskies over the past 15 years of the schools&#8217; football rivalry, then thought better of it. Then came the question about missing it and my strangely quick and candid answer.<\/p>\n<p>Portland doesn&#8217;t resemble the city I knew as a boy and then as a much younger man. It&#8217;s gotten, to my way of thinking, a bit full of itself. Traffic is terrible. Streets are narrow. Real estate prices have rocketed into outer space. The lady mentioned how &#8220;quirky&#8221; Portland always has been, but that it&#8217;s gotten a bit strange in recent years. Quirky, I can handle. That doesn&#8217;t bother me. It just no longer feels like &#8220;home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>All of that plus the fact that I am now well into my 70s. I no longer work full time.<\/p>\n<p>Do I miss my family members who still live there or nearby? Yes. Do I miss our many friends? Yes &#8230; of course to both questions.<\/p>\n<p>But we moved away in the spring of 1984 to pursue a journalism career that took me many places over the course of many years in Texas. We built a good life, first in Beaumont, then in Amarillo, and now in Princeton, where we settled into what we call our &#8220;forever home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I long have been amazed at how adaptable I proved to myself I could be when we decided to take a leap of faith some 38 years ago. That was then. I sense I am a good bit less adaptable these days.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:johnkanelis_92@hotmail.com\">johnkanelis_92@hotmail.com<\/a><\/p>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It just flew out of my mouth the moment I heard the question: Do I miss Portland? My answer, which came without the slightest hesitation: No. I do not. I was wearing an Oregon Ducks ballcap when we walked into a Barnes &amp; Noble bookstore in Frisco, Texas, the other day. The lady at the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=52759\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">A surprising bit of candor<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[1936,3671,4668],"class_list":["post-52759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-local-news","tag-golden-triangle","tag-portland-or","tag-texas-panhandle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52759","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=52759"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52759\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":52760,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52759\/revisions\/52760"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=52759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=52759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=52759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}