{"id":35849,"date":"2019-03-07T03:53:54","date_gmt":"2019-03-07T03:53:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=35849"},"modified":"2019-03-07T03:53:54","modified_gmt":"2019-03-07T03:53:54","slug":"political-differences-need-not-destroy-friendships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=35849","title":{"rendered":"Political differences need not destroy friendships"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/political-differences.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-35850\" src=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/political-differences-300x205.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"205\" srcset=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/political-differences-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/political-differences.jpg 650w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I sent a letter via snail mail to a friend of mine this week.<\/p>\n<p>His name is Ernie Houdashell. He is a devoted Republican Party elected official. He serves as Randall County, Texas, judge. Houdashell is as devoted a partisan as anyone I know.<\/p>\n<p>He and I differ fundamentally on politics. We&#8217;ve actually argued a time or two over the years, particularly since my departure from the Amarillo Globe-News in August 2012.<\/p>\n<p>But here&#8217;s the deal: He and I remain friends. I have great respect for this good man. I wrote him a note just to give him an update on where my wife and I have relocated. He&#8217;ll likely have received the letter, and I hope he takes to heart the way I ended it. I told him I am &#8220;proud&#8221; that he and I have maintained our friendship.<\/p>\n<p>Why am I mentioning this? Because I want to illustrate how easy it can be for people with vastly different philosophical outlooks to retain their personal affection for each other. They can be friends, just as<em> Ernie and I <\/em>are friends. I believe in my heart that my friend feels the same way I do.<\/p>\n<p>We hear too much these days on social media and in other media about those who have seen their friendships shattered in this toxic and divisive political climate.<\/p>\n<p>I keep reading Facebook posts from individuals who admit to losing friends because of disagreements over policy matters. Man, that kind of news really saddens me!<\/p>\n<p>I worked for more than two decades in a region known for its severe rightward tilt. The Texas Panhandle arguably is the birthplace of the modern conservative Republican movement. I lived for that entire time in Randall County, where Democratic elected officials have gone dormant since 1995.<\/p>\n<p>I won&#8217;t belabor the point that I have many good friends in Amarillo who happen to view the world differently than I do. I&#8217;ve said it and I&#8217;ll leave it at that.<\/p>\n<p>I just wish the current bitterness that infects our atmosphere wasn&#8217;t so destructive to so many other people&#8217;s relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Mitt Romney, the 2012 Republican presidential nominee, said of his opponent that year, President Barack Obama, that the two men had little time for personal animus toward each other. &#8220;There more to life,&#8221; Romney said, &#8220;than politics.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Indeed.<\/p>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I sent a letter via snail mail to a friend of mine this week. His name is Ernie Houdashell. He is a devoted Republican Party elected official. He serves as Randall County, Texas, judge. Houdashell is as devoted a partisan as anyone I know. He and I differ fundamentally on politics. We&#8217;ve actually argued a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=35849\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Political differences need not destroy friendships<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[61,540,1676,3101,3823,4300,4603,4622],"class_list":["post-35849","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-local-news","tag-2012-election","tag-barack-obama","tag-facebook","tag-mitt-romney","tag-randall-county","tag-social-media","tag-texas-democrats","tag-texas-gop"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35849","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=35849"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35849\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35851,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35849\/revisions\/35851"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=35849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=35849"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=35849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}