{"id":29689,"date":"2018-05-10T00:49:13","date_gmt":"2018-05-10T00:49:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=29689"},"modified":"2018-05-10T00:49:13","modified_gmt":"2018-05-10T00:49:13","slug":"be-careful-of-the-magic-word-in-social-media-spats","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=29689","title":{"rendered":"Be careful of the &#8216;magic word&#8217; in social media spats"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/9733284483_d01e4924cb_k-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-29690\" src=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/9733284483_d01e4924cb_k-1-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/9733284483_d01e4924cb_k-1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/9733284483_d01e4924cb_k-1-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/9733284483_d01e4924cb_k-1-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/9733284483_d01e4924cb_k-1.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s an acknowledged truism in baseball that when you get into an argument with an umpire, uttering the &#8220;magic word&#8221; will get you ejected from the playing field in a New York nano-second.<\/p>\n<p>What, pretell, is that magic word? It is <em>&#8220;you.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s right. Shout the word &#8220;you&#8221; at the ump and he&#8217;ll toss you. As in &#8220;f*** you!&#8221; or &#8220;you son of a b****!&#8221; or &#8220;you blind b******!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The profanities? No sweat. Just don&#8217;t attach &#8220;you&#8221; to the vilest epithet you can utter.<\/p>\n<p>That rule of thumb ought to apply to social media spats. I quite frequently witness these arguments erupt along my social media networks, namely my Facebook news feed. They usually originate with an item from High Plains Blogger that I distribute to my Facebook &#8220;friends&#8221; and my actual friends, who also happen to read these musings on Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>Two or more readers of the blog then will get involved in arguing back and forth about a point I seek to make in the blog. I usually stay out of it. I prefer to let them go at it, tooth and nail, hammer and tong.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been fortunate in this regard: Whenever I do exchange thoughts with critics of my blog, the folks on the other other end usually are civil enough to respond like ladies and gentlemen. I don&#8217;t have to invoke the Baseball Rhubarb Rule that gets activated whenever someone blurts out the magic word &#8220;you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t like name-calling when dealing with just plain folks like myself. Yes, I&#8217;ve been known to attach a pejorative description or two to people in high places. The president of the United States, for example, has received his fair share of name-calling from me. But, hey, if he can dish it out &#8230; right?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll continue to seek to stay above the nastiness that erupts occasionally along this particular social media network, but I won&#8217;t stand for anyone dropping the magic word on me as their way of impugning me.<\/p>\n<p>Hey, everyone has their limit.<\/p>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s an acknowledged truism in baseball that when you get into an argument with an umpire, uttering the &#8220;magic word&#8221; will get you ejected from the playing field in a New York nano-second. What, pretell, is that magic word? It is &#8220;you.&#8221; That&#8217;s right. Shout the word &#8220;you&#8221; at the ump and he&#8217;ll toss you. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=29689\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Be careful of the &#8216;magic word&#8217; in social media spats<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[1676,2122,3105],"class_list":["post-29689","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-media-news","tag-facebook","tag-high-plains-blogger","tag-mlb"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29689","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=29689"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29689\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29691,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29689\/revisions\/29691"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=29689"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=29689"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=29689"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}