{"id":20872,"date":"2017-04-08T03:23:34","date_gmt":"2017-04-08T03:23:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=20872"},"modified":"2017-04-08T03:23:34","modified_gmt":"2017-04-08T03:23:34","slug":"reunion-no-50-the-dilemma-deepens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=20872","title":{"rendered":"Reunion No. 50: The dilemma deepens"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/reunion.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-20361\" src=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/reunion-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/reunion-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/reunion-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/reunion.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I just got word that the\u00a0planners who are organizing the 50-year reunion of my high school graduating class have set a date and a location.<\/p>\n<p>It will take place this October at a hotel near Portland (Ore.) International Airport. Ironically, it also will occur not terribly far from where my classmates and I graduated from Parkrose High School.<\/p>\n<p>The old building was torn down years ago and was replaced by a shiny new structure that doubles as a community center.<\/p>\n<p>My dilemma is deepening about whether to attend this event.<\/p>\n<p>The 30-year high school reunion sucked for me. I went back to Portland seeking to rekindle relationships I had with some of the folks with whom I graduated. Much to my surprise &#8212; and <em>chagrin<\/em> &#8212; I found that there was nothing to rekindle. You can&#8217;t\u00a0ignite something that doesn&#8217;t exist.<\/p>\n<p>I vowed not to go back.<\/p>\n<p>No. 40 came and went. Without me. I stayed true to my personal pact.<\/p>\n<p>Now it&#8217;s No. 50 looming out there.<\/p>\n<p>I cannot tell if my waffling means I want to go but I&#8217;m looking for reasons to stay away; or whether it means I <em>don&#8217;t<\/em> want to go but I&#8217;m seeking a reason to go.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe I need to reset my expectation if I do return to this event.<\/p>\n<p>I hate these dilemmas. I think I&#8217;ll pray for some discernment.<\/p>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just got word that the\u00a0planners who are organizing the 50-year reunion of my high school graduating class have set a date and a location. It will take place this October at a hotel near Portland (Ore.) International Airport. 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