{"id":16039,"date":"2016-07-20T18:59:50","date_gmt":"2016-07-20T18:59:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=16039"},"modified":"2016-07-20T18:59:50","modified_gmt":"2016-07-20T18:59:50","slug":"lack-of-civility-seems-to-be-contagious","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=16039","title":{"rendered":"Lack of civility seems to be contagious"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/civility.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-16040\" src=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/civility-300x240.jpg\" alt=\"civility\" width=\"300\" height=\"240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/civility-300x240.jpg 300w, https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/civility.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>A buddy of mine has offered this timely and relevant nugget of wisdom, which I am sharing here.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If you have children, please teach them that &#8216;you&#8217;re welcome&#8217; is the correct response to &#8216;thank you.&#8217; And that &#8216;no problem&#8217; is a phrase that can go just away. I realize that there are more pressing concerns in the world, but the decline of civility, and basic functional English phrases that have endured for centuries, gives me a sad.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The fellow who posted this on social media is a friend and former colleague of mine at the Amarillo Globe-News. He&#8217;s since moved\u00a0away.<\/p>\n<p>His social media post is so very true that I wanted to pass it along to my own network of friends, acquaintances and readers of this blog.<\/p>\n<p>I get the &#8220;no problem&#8221; response constantly during my travels through our city. The more I hear it, the more annoyed I become.<\/p>\n<p>I haven&#8217;t lashed out at a young&#8217;n for saying it &#8230; at least not yet. That doesn&#8217;t mean I won&#8217;t some day.<\/p>\n<p>If you catch me on a bad day, I&#8217;m likely to strike back. For example, I once walked into a coffee shop here in town and was treated with\u00a0what I only can describe as extraordinary rudeness. The young man who took my drink order was having a bad morning; he wouldn&#8217;t look me in the eye when I gave him my order;\u00a0when he handed it to me, he did so while looking the other way and bitching at a colleague of his about\u00a0the lack of something-or-other behind the counter.<\/p>\n<p>I wrote the manager of said coffee shop, registered my complaint &#8212; and the place made a good-faith effort to make it up to me.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps it was a sign of the &#8220;lack of civility&#8221; that\u00a0my friend\u00a0mentioned. We&#8217;ve bemoaned the lack of civility in the halls of power, be they in Washington or Austin or perhaps of late even at Amarillo City Hall.<\/p>\n<p>His\u00a0post reminds me of something U.S. Rep. Mac Thornberry, R-Clarendon,\u00a0told me many years ago. He lays down several rules for his congressional interns to follow when they go to work at his office.<\/p>\n<p>One of them is to &#8220;Call your mother&#8221; regularly. Another of them is to say &#8220;You&#8217;re welcome&#8221; when a constituent thanks them for helping with an issue that needs a resolution. &#8220;No problem&#8221; doesn&#8217;t cut it in Thornberry&#8217;s office.<\/p>\n<p>Nor with me &#8230;\u00a0or my old pal.<\/p>\n\n<div class=\"twitter-share\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?via=jkanelis\" class=\"twitter-share-button\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A buddy of mine has offered this timely and relevant nugget of wisdom, which I am sharing here. &#8220;If you have children, please teach them that &#8216;you&#8217;re welcome&#8217; is the correct response to &#8216;thank you.&#8217; And that &#8216;no problem&#8217; is a phrase that can go just away. I realize that there are more pressing concerns &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/?p=16039\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Lack of civility seems to be contagious<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,10],"tags":[179,290,849,6433,2849,4300],"class_list":["post-16039","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-local-news","category-media-news","tag-agn-media","tag-amarillo-city-hall","tag-capitol-hill","tag-civility","tag-mac-thornberry","tag-social-media"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16039","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16039"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16039\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16041,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16039\/revisions\/16041"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16039"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16039"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/highplainsblogger.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16039"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}